Resolutions for Couples to Make on Their Wedding
Hopefully 2022 has started in an incredible way for you. Although you probably have your own resolutions, there are some others that you may not have considered yet, but which are useful for engaged couples preparing for their wedding in 2022. Here are some goals related to your relationship to make sure that your marriage and your marriage are a complete success!
1. Spend Time Together Without Distractions
When was the last time you spent a lot of time with your fiance without turning on the TV, humming the phones or a bunch of other distractions? In 2022, they decide to spend conscious time together, where distractions are not allowed. The phones need to be muted, the TV needs to be turned off, and you need to make eye contact when you talk. You will be surprised how quickly it will help you feel closer to your partner.
2. Try Something New
Getting out of your comfort zone is not easy for anyone, but doing it next to the love of your life makes it more enjoyable and helps you create even more connections. Make a schedule of the number of times you want to try something completely new—whether you’ve never done one or both. This can be weekly, monthly or every three months. Write down some ideas, if that helps you, and take them out of a pot when it’s time to try a new activity together.
3. Have Prearranged Nights
Do you remember when you first started to know each other? Remember how intentional your hangouts were? Maybe they weren’t official “dates” at the beginning, but they were excited about the idea of going out, and they may have made an effort to make sure that what they were doing was enjoyable. Try to put some of that effort into your date nights today. Plan something that your fiance would appreciate and encourage him to do the same. Have appointments regularly.
4. Listen without thinking about how you answer
It’s easy to think that you are listening to your loved one, while in reality you are trying to think about what they will say next. Practice listening more to your partner and really pay attention to what he says when he speaks. You will both start to feel like you know her better because you will!
5. Communicate your feelings
Poor communication is one of the main reasons why couples action. Help ease your struggles by communicating your feelings clearly instead of slipping into habits of passive aggression or anger. Silent treatment has never solved a problem, but honest communication with your partner can solve many things!
6. Value your time Alone
No, this does not mean spending time alone with your partner. That means time alone with yourself. It goes without saying that your fiance is your favorite person, but you want to make sure that you are healthy and happy. Check-in with yourself, and check in from time to time. Make sure that you do the things that you like to do—maybe you go for a walk, draw, play sports, etc. it’s normal to sometimes do things that your partner does not do with you. Make sure that you both have your own interests and goals.
7. Have fun activities “punishment”
Instead of constantly annoying each other with the little habits that drive you crazy—like leaving socks on the floor or not cleaning your hair from the shower drain—create a game out of them. This helps to reduce low-level inconveniences, rather than allowing them to turn into big resentments. Every time low-level trouble occurs, the culprit takes out a paper from a jar and has to do the activity. The ideas for what could be included in the pot: “Rub your partner’s back”, “prepare dinner” or “buy your favorite drink.”